im here to talk if you need me ill always be clicking in and out of this forums. you both sound like youve been through alot and managed pretty well actually, well done on that. its very easy to get confused and muddle things up, which correct me if im wrong but you sound like you’ve but you’ve both managed to stay out of the muddled up part.you both sound like you could help eachother
‘’know that I've given you only a brief summary of my relationship but its pretty much the gist of it. So why can't I leave her? Is it because I just can't see her get hurt? Or maybe I'm just selfish and want someone to come home to. How do I leave her? I know this is not healthy relationship at all and we've tried couples therapy to no avail. It feels like a dependancy issue for both of us... so how do I get out?’’
How would you feel if you did hurt her? And how would you feel if you had no one to come home too?