Re: This is killing me, what do I do????
there can't be 3 in a relationship. she has broken her marriage vows with you.
there is nothing that you can do, she needs to choose. it's all up to her now. although heart breaking as it is
to find this out now, it's better to know the truth. she may just be confused about her sexual make up. i have
a daughter that was confused and felt that she was attracted to the same sex. i kept asking her through the year's
about it to find out if she had figured it out. she would alway's tell me she wasn't sure. she had boyfriend's
and went out with guy's but still was unsure. she got married to a man about a tear ago and after she was married
i asked her again if she still had felling of attraction towards women and she said no not anymore. i asked her
how she knew for sure and she said that before she was married she had an intimate relationship with a woman
and said it wasn't like she thought it would be. she didn't like it at all. i told her that if it took that to find out then
i'm glad it happened. has your wife ever had a previous relationship with a women?, maybey she is only confused.
if you want to hold onto your wife suggest counsuling to get out her feeling and to find out if that's what she really
wants. maybey she just is being mentally tortured as well as you. hope this helps you out. god bless.