For one the whole being down all the time I think is a cop out, I'll admit that maybe I was displaying my disdain for the way my life was going at the time but I never went on and on about it. There were times that she was constantly miserable because of her Rheumatoid Arthritis not to mention her grandma was dying. But I never let it get to me. Its those times where you need someone the most and I helped her out the best I can. I guess she felt like she just couldn't handle the things that go along with a long term relationship. BTW, of all the people I know including her, I have the easiest time making friends. She's the one that said this and as far as i know depressing people really aren't that sociable nor do alot of people like to be around them. Conclusion, she's just being a selfish, bitch. All she wants to do is go out and have fun and then come back to me. i'm sorry but this is just cruel, unususal and it takes someone with no heart to do something like this. Everyday that passes my feelings for her die.