I hate going to the dentist. I hated that I let my son when he was 2 get his teeth filled by the dentist. I breast fed him until he was 2 and 1/2 years old. I brushed his teeth too. But he still ended up with cavities. They gave him a drug that made him very loopy, and put him on a bunky board, (I think that's what it's called). After the drilling and filling I took him home. In a couple hours he developed blisters filled with water on each side of his mouth. I called the dentist and told them..and they said, no way could that be from anything they did..I asked if the water hose gets hot..no they said. I think the rubber of the water tube hose got warm from friction or it just rubbed against his baby skin and cause the blisters. Obviously it was from the dentist..I ain't dumb! Anway..he ended up with 2 bluish streaks like viens showing thru his skin for years afterwards.
They end up loosing their teeth early anyway..why go thru all that pain and aggravation, not to mention the toxins from the drugs, and fillings.
You are lucky you are finding a holistic approach that seems to be working for you. Wish I could find one for me at my age.