Oh ok thanks people, it's just frustrating because although she says she enjoys it and I know she does I can tell.. Like sometimes when she doesn’t come also she feels bad, like her body feels funny after and I want to be able to carry on after I ejaculate but usually go limp fast.
Anyways what is worrying me is that me and her been talking about trying different positions and that made me think how I'll probably get too excited and ejaculate too early for us to even enjoy it or try many different ones. I realised it has alot to do with mind control... With her I did that alot and many times I lasted over 5 minutes but can never last more than 10 although I'm not sure if its fun to even last that long but yeah.