well, your post was pretty anti my anal sex post below, but i think that was because i didn't elaborate on it and on my husbands feelings about it. i clarified up top, and then read your post here... hmmm... i never really thought about anal sex being high risk for us because we've both been tested and we're free of disease so if it's still risky will someone out there tell me how it's risky and what it could do? I mean, no one has ever died or had severe internal bleeding from it have they? it hurts so bad that i would be afraid of injury though so i guess it makes sense! but anyway... thank you bush/cheney04 for your post. i appreciate it. i'd love to be able to do it for my husband (on rare occasion anyway)...but i guess my only problem is putting too much pressure on myself to do it since i get no pressure from him. thank you