help me!! I have been trying to have anal sex with my husband, who loves it, and it hurts me WAY too much. I try to "stretch" out my anus by sticking even MY thin fingers into it and it HURTS so bad! he's trie d to stick his cock into it and it is horrible PAIN. I have even gotten totally drunk and it HURTS SO BAD. HELP me! any tips on how to have anal sex?????? I desperately want to do this for my husband. thanks