Thank you for your comment. I am a very sensitive person and I didn't make him feel bad. In fact, he asked me just what I remembered about the night. I was drunk, uhg, very drunk. Anyway, i didn't mention his short commings and I would never. So, all he thinks is we stopped beause it wasn't right or because I was drunk, not because he could perform. I didn't make him feel bad and I'm pretty sure he doesn't. From my point of view, I feel that I feel worse because I feel I pushed myself onto him and that's alot of pressure. My being able to laugh it off is my embarrassment not because I'm laughing at him in anyway. It's cool. I learned a hard lesson there and I bet he did too. Really, everything is cool. Thanks for the responses.