Being a woman married for 11 years I have a comment. How about the men and all the courting they do. Decieving us that they will be our rock steady and secure, and then BOOM one day the football game is way more important than taking us out to a nice dinner (only to come home and get F----d.) Or how bout the flowers, or the card, or holding of hands etc. etc. So don't act all innocent MEN. If you want more sex how bout courting your woman again, making us feel pretty and desireable, we too have fantasys wether we tell you or not, and theres lots of bag boys at the grocery stores that give us that little bit of attention.