Hi anthony and Starlight,
Yup that was me, I hate all the moooshy romance stuff, but sometimes it follows you until you validate it. I even gave myself advice on forum...what a nerd I am!
So you two, if you still get those persistant dreams about a person...its them thinking of YOU! I mean it, its true!
I kept having reoccurring dreams of him, when I finally found his email and emailed him...the first thing he said was "I was thinking about you and how much I appreciated you."
Not saying we'll live happily ever after...but we are communicating again. He's very spiritual so its all fitting quite nicely.
No coincidences...it just shocks me really...I am still metabolizing it.