I can understand how it would come off that way. There is a lot of tension in here based on some things that have happened in the recent past. If you read a little farther down you will see what I mean.
I think we would all agree that some sense of balance and respect for other people's opinions is important for a free exchange of ideas. I know that I, and I imagine other people as well, get frustrated when people who call themselves Christian can come in here and act abusive and outrageous and fellow Christians don't call them on it. But when other people make even lesser infractions, the get chastized. Does that make sense?