God does not intend for this to cause division. Don't argue over it.Don't get mad. Pray for your mate.
I read somewhere just the other day that less than 11% of Chirch goers tithes.
I know I fall short on this,but its my loss,
God knows your heart,If you are not allowed to give from the increase,Then so be it.
God bless you,His will be done,