Cool, it's always nice to know there's someone out there that's got the same crap to deal with. lol.
It irritates me too that the church keeps supporting this "Jesus the Enabler" role.
They don't tell her that she needs to take responsibility for her own actions and that she is responsible to herself for the way she's living. They don't try and help her build up her own strength to help herself and take pride in herself, they tell her "Lean on God"! WEll if she's always leaning on someone, how will she ever learn to stand??!!?
It pisses me off that they just keep enabling her weakness so she'll keep Needing them and paying them money to keep her down there, needy and weak.
Am I just a complete idiot not to see "God's Love" in that?