Re: should I get a divorce?

Hi Scorpio, that sounds like a difficult situation. I am guessing from your question, that there is the potential for you wanting it to work? Or am I mistaken?
I am very familiar with having social phobia/anxiety, as well as a husband that likes to be in charge. I don't know if a controlling personality constitutes abuse, but then I don't know the specifics of your relationship, and I guess it is an individual thing on how much a person can tolerate.
I have been a vegetarian my whole life, and have gone back and forth on vegan/vegetarian and eating some fish, and my husband never jumped on the band wagon, we learned how to adjust to each other's seperate ways of eating. He has never understood it.(you had brought that up as a concern)
I guess the point is that I can live with that. Maybe that is something that you can not live with. If you are thinking of divorcing your husband due to these issues they are important enough to you, and it sounds like he is NOT getting it. Maybe you need to sit down and tell him it's serious, I am thinking of leaving this marriage, that is how serious it is. Be sure to communicate in a loving way, or it may turn into a fight. Marital counseling is always a good idea. I wish you luck. Tweet