Hi,
RUN, don't walk away. Get rid of him. This is a classic sign of an abuser. My first husband also had classic signs of an abuser, and I was too dumb to know better. He would never accept responsibility for anything.. if he wrecked the car, it was my fault (if though I wasn't there) because he "was mad at me, when he did it."
It cost me everything I had to get away from him. My children, my home, everything.. down to the clothes on my back. Get out while you can. Believe me, a little heartbreak now is much better than the hell you will go through if you stay with him.