having been attacked myself, i know exactly what you're talking about. i will say i received supportive e mail from posters like yourself who didn't want to be attacked. i am very sensitive and if it hadn't been for the supportive e's she would have ruined this site for me and i would never come back. since that time i have learned so much, so that would have been a shame. thank you for calling a spade a spade. it needed to be said. i wish alien lady the best, but she is the one that needs to censer her posts!