I have had many people to forgive. Some I have some I'm still working on. After realizing that there is a reason to forgive a person (which can take years in itself)it can be a long process. I forgave my father for being an alcholic and mentally abusive 2 weeks before he suddeleny died at 53. That is the one thing I am most thankfull for in my forgiving process. I have also found that when "the abuse" is ongoing it's very hard to forgive... So, that's where I am at in my life.
Libra