I actually don't agree that our lips look as good as everyone else's. Our lips are actually quite bad relative to other people's, even after we have exfoliated. I agree, however, that we need to walk with more confidence and not be obsessed with the fact that other people have normal lips. We especially need to accept that people may react to our lips because they sense that something is wrong with us, even if they are not consciously aware of it. Good luck and stay strong.