it is ok, this is how we learn about people. if they get to the point where they resort to name calling, then you know they must have some old baggage bottled up, deep down inside them. Perhaps it is therapeutic, for them to let it out on the internet. Imagine how many spouses we have saved from being beaten up, because the other spouse was able to come on here and let it out. Also keep in mind that even a 12 year old can get on cz, so what you sometimes see is 12 year olds who's hormones are just kicking in. There's a lot of booger-butts out there