I haven't gotten tested but this proved to be the cure for me for awhile. I have very similar symptoms to yours and when I went gluten free I was able to control it. But then I noticed nuts also made me react and in the past few months everything seems to make me react, like you said, kissing my husband, eating spicy or salty food or just not moisturizing, so it seems to be getting worse again. But i am on a very strict diet. do you not have any gluten products in your house at all. My husband refuses to stop eating it so we havent really made out in like three months! :) I will def get tested for celiacs. I just got back from the derm and she gave me desonide and suggested a patch allergy test - has anyone done this? It tests for different substances found in products and also fragrances.