I have something similar and I have almost 21 and still a virgin too. Im lately thinking that may we are suffering from CVS, Chronic Virginity Symptom LOL
Not kidding at all I have penis numbness, stiffness, sometimes pain all over the area, anorgasmia and severe ED. So yeah I can idetinfy with you and understand why you are not that motivated to get laid or even in a emotional relationship. All this started when I used an aluminum antiperspirant for two years, but I was already ill because I was Asperger so you can guess. Tests has shown I have autoinmune diseases and I have almost every system or hormone or nutrient dysfunctional/defficient/out of whack and I am about to embark in an agressive detox protocol, with AC chelation and more shit. Neurotoxins (heavy metals etc) and genetic mutations such as MTHFR are the real culprits of everything, at least in my case.