Re: Work place bullying - Tense Relationships

Dear #21380,

Three years ago you wrote in this forum complaining about basically the same issues.  At that time

you said something about how the management was relocating you to another place.  I wonder, are you in the same job, or a different one?  How odd that three years later, people are still being abusive towards you.

You were given a lot of really good advice back then, so to refresh your memory, Im pasting the link below for you so you can re-read.

Being nice and bringing in cookies, etc., may indeed be the higher ground, but if you are somewhere in a large city with hardened people, this will not work as it should ideally.  It will only raise their level of contempt.  You need to strike a balance of not responding in the same nasty way as them, while maintaining your dignity.  I wonder if you react visibly hurt or annoyed and if this is what's encouraging these people to violate you?

Here's those old but excellent responses to your old post:

curezone.com/forums/fm.asp

curezone.com/forums/fm.asp

curezone.com/forums/fm.asp