Re: Need someone to talk to Wife cheated

 Is it possible that the original poster needs to address his past before he can go about casting stones?  Predatory behavior reaps what it sows, and this might be one of Life's Lessons:  what goes around, comes around.

I would urge the OP to cease all "intimate" relationships and get into some serious counseling to get to the root of his own behaviors.  What is very clear is that the OP is apparently wanting to control his girlfriend - we do not have the ultimate authority to control anyone but OURSELVES.  Once the OP has done some hard, courageous, and difficult work, he'll be ready to engage in a meaningful relationship where "intimacy" doesn't necessarily equate to sex.

Best wishes.