Re: confused and married 10 years

Omg, I really don't know what to say except you probably cannot change her quickly; but probably more importantly it may be more important to look at both of your unique situations and problems.

For example, you sound like a horny goat. Why is your sex drive SO high? Is it unusually high would you say? Do you think you might have underlying anxiety, or dare I say it, a parasite problem?

Regarding she: maybe she is overtired, overworked and low in minerals, vitamins, and other essential nutrients which keep sex drive normal? Could this be contributing?

I think you both need to take a sane look at both and each other's health, and not look at the lack of sex per se.

In the meantime, try and read a good scholarly article, it may keep your mind off copulation ;-)