you may have fibromyalgia, this illness is very hard to detect. it took years for 2 doctors to finally figure it out. an Arthritis doctor and a nerologist. it does cause many probelms. i was told at first that it was all in my head,lol. im sure many of you have heard that one. be careful of the meds they give you, the side affects are very bad. ive tired them all. now, i just take better care of myself, and do what i can do. i used to be so independent, thats the hard part. i have accepted this illness. exercise hurts, but we must try to stay limber. very light exercise. lots of stretching. many people dont understand this illness, but we do. i will be here to support you all the way. if you just want to vent or ask questions, please e-mail me. god bless, cloe JEGCL3@AOL.COM ps. its ok to cry!!!! get the pain out!!!!