Before I begin, I want to say how much I have always admired, respected and appreciated you as a balanced, honest, open hearted and peace making Being. I have been greatly blessed by your presence. Thank you.

Some of what follows will be a consolidation of some thoughts from my other posts and also some new thoughts.......  

As you know, Curezone has a set of Ts & Cs/code of conduct, which reflects it's intent and purpose. From that, people get to choose whether they stay or go.

These Ts & Cs are relatively loose, to reflect the diversity of the Universe we live in and Dushan's love of freedom. However, there's a fine line between freedom and anarchy. 

Some have had opinions that they are above reproach and the actions that follow from that can be destructive to a community (especially one like Curezone, which serves as a place of healing.) It fuels hatred and division in a community that needs to focus on integration and harmony. 

If you take into consideration everything that is stated in the Curezone TOS, you'll find that ML has broken the TOS numerous times over the years. ML has been given countless warnings; Dushan (webmaster) has been considerably generous with his leniency. 

You know the history of this (but I'll write a little here for those who are unfamilar with it.) When ML was banned from all of Curezone around 2 years ago, it was ME who fought with moderators and the webmaster to revoke the ban. You have no idea the amount of time and energy I put into helping ML get back on the forum.  

Many people were bullied off Curezone because of ML. Many good, kind people. I'm even ashamed to admit that I was part of that. I supported ML even when he was bullying others because for some strange reason I believed he would change.

I promised the webmaster that I would speak with ML and personally make sure he stopped attacking and abusing his rights. ML promised he would stop his poor behaviour and conduct his business in a civil manner. That is why the webmaster agreed to revoke the ban last time (amidst outcries from the other moderators.)

ML has not kept his promise. So he has banned himself. Cause and effect.

The question is, do you think ML could change? And is it even fair to ask him to do so? Because in order to change, he may be compromising his faith and his belief in his version of God. Surely, no one can be expected to do that, and it would not be fair ask someone to do so either.

It would require a quantum leap for him to return and change. Oh, he might change for a few months, but beliefs are beliefs and people always act them out eventually .. it's not possible to do otherwise.  

What is the way forward? We can all stay focused on wanted things and allow the Universe to deliver solutions to all, so that everyone finds a means of having what is wanted in their lives, even if that means a parting of ways. 

Although my first idea was that a time-out for ML would serve it's purpose .... in retrospect, based on the fact that ML would be compromising his faith and belief in his version of God, a time out may not serve Curezone to it's ultimate goal, if that is one of peace, harmony and integration.  

Again, thank you for all that you are and have become. 

Love and blessings to you and yours

Maya