Thanks for your help.
My problem is I am too nice. I refuse to hit a woman, much less my wife. Her & I have argued for years & years about boundries...she is very stubborn.
I do not fear my wife at all....
I am not afraid to confront her...
It's just that there is no getting my way...just hers.
I have remained with her all these years because I do love her....but I refuse to keep going without a voice.