This thread is truly eye opening. Thank you for the wealth of information. I have started looking into divorce4her.com as an option for my divorce. I don't have money to hire a big shot lawyer just to separate me from my husband. I'm glad I found the info you provided because wasn't sure if these were actually legal. If anyone actually used them successfully. I've mentioned this to a couple of my friends and they are all very interested. It's sad divorce is like a silent epidemic these days, but it helps to have other options. Thank you!