Re: Divorce or no Divorce???

I absolutely agree with the last two posters. Love is....My spouse and I wore each other down. We were in love once upon a time. I still love him and he says he still loves me, but we have been divorced for a few years now. We actually have a better relationship now as a divorced couple, lol. Sometimes to much has been done and said to even fathom going back. See she could also like the fact that you are now begging for her to come back. Seems when you told her you both should stay apart and you need to get a divorce, it made her throw herself at you. When the tables are turned, she is in control now and likes that. Work on yourself, get that counseling, don't even give up and try to get rid of yourself. You have a huge responsibility...your Kids! Do you want them feeling the kind of pain you are feeling right now only for their dad? Divorce is one thing, Death is forever. Love your kids. Forget the rest. It gets easier.

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