Thank you Peggyaus. The p 0 r n was disturbing. Not brutal, but disturbing. As I said, he has stopped as far as I know. I just worry about how long that will last. I guess I viewed his accusations towards me more as a plea. I felt as if he was scared and hurt that it could be happening, not sternfully accusatory. I want to give him credit for subsiding from the p 0 r n, but on the other hand it will be with for a very long time. It's hard not to think it will be happening again next week.
I need to go for now. Thanks again for your opinion. This is very helpful.