It sounds like you've got plenty of people ranting about who you are...fv(k 'em! You need to RAVE about who YOU are!!! That's all there problem...don't make it yours. Celebrate yourself and pay no mind to whatever others think of you and how they try to put you in a little box!!! We are all so much bigger and greater than we think we are, and certainly than others think we are...or want us to be. Break out of there, girl!!!