I have read this story twice. First time trying to absorb as is!
Second time I red it as the narcissist female has wridden it.
I mean a female who can’t see too many faults in herself wanting to destroy her husband’s life.
It made more sense to me seeing that way.
The story is too long if a man would write it!
If a marriage has fallen to the level where one goes to internet looking for another partner even for fun, then BOTH PARTNERS need to go in front of a mirror and ask: WHAT IS WRONG!
Successful marriage needs two active partners!