This stance is what turns off so many people from going to church. I am so sorry to read your dogmatic, legalistic writing. I am sure you believe you are right,and you probably have good intentions but, to me, you are not helpful. I do not condemn you for your opinions. I believe differently, that love and encouragement is what Jesus had and he was not judgmental. I believe that the only chance some people have to see Jesus is in us, and I don't want to be dogmatic, critical, or legalistic, or around those that are.
I thank you for your time and your good intentions. I refuse to discuss this further.