First of all, congratulations for your determination to do right by your child and for insisting on waking up your husband. I can see that you have a lot of challenges in your life right now, and certainly standing by your principles in the face of opposition requires great fortitude. I support you in your endeavours.
As far as the sinister workings of the PTB, a good site to get a lot of info all in one place is http://www.cuttingedge.org
This site was intrumental in my own life, especially in waking me up to the reality that true Christianity had been hijacked by opportunists whose loyalties were in globalist secret societies, not Christ.
As far as your child, I can't think of enough good things to say about homeschooling. It is simply the most rewarding and exciting thing I have ever done. For this you need to do some googling, as the amount of stuff you can find is too overwhelming to just give you a link or two on the subject, but if you are worried abut legaliteis in your state, you can start by going to the Home Schol Legal Defense Association.
(I hope that's the right addy, if not, just google it and it will come right up)
Cocerned about how? get a catalog from these guys and if you don't get excited about all the hundreds of fabulous curriculum and media available...well...I couldn't imagine you wouldn't :-)