hey, I've been linking your posts, I don't have links to the resources/message boards you used. Give them up & I'll help spread the word. I am SO impressed. Anyway, I linked them on "Ask CZ" a few days ago and also in the debate forum, as a response to this post:
Follow the link in Grz's post, very sad. 5 year old died...you, on the other hand, proceeded with caution. VERY smart, in all things...
When you have the time, do a really really detailed post as to your journey with your son, including resources you found helpful. You could help a lot of people... :)