Nobody wants wars for jews, not just trapper. Jews are more than capable of conducting their own wars. They should be - we armed them to the teeth, including over 200 nukes.
But the risk to your life is not physical. It is spiritual and eternal, which is a lot more serious than any surrogate wars fought for Israel.
He/she definitely deserves better than the hellish doctrines you preach, but He/she is your stalker, not mine. Man-up, and take responsibility for the spiritual wreckage you leave in your wake wherever you go.
This baby is yours, and yours alone, unless by God's grace the light of the gospel floods his/her mind and scatters your darkness back to the four corners of hades, where it belongs.
Now there's something worthwhile to pray for, no?