just a hunch
you're a single mother?
divorced a weak-willed man?
if trapper actually was an alpha male i would be supporting him. v is more of an alpha male than trapper. a good alpha has the whole pack's interest. trapper is more of a self-interested type.
he has toned it down a bit i see with some recent posts getting back to the roots so good on him. it's just that it takes a lot of energy to keep him at bay. eventually i will stop wasting energy on him and things will revert to the homeostatic dynamic of women with daddy issues taking his word as gospel (i did notice that he is a preacher or wannabe). so be it, let them all follow.
it's not obsession, more like setting the record straight on what's what and who's who.
hmmm sounds familiar, just what you and everyone else is trying to do.
you got a problem with my version, i got a problem with your version and the wheel spins.
nice try though at trying to edge out the upper hand with psychobabble.