both times I've had my bartholin glands swell up, it was right after i lost a really good lover to another woman and i am thinking it was caused by some kind of pelvic congestion

one time i even had to have it lanced and a wick put in it

the doctor thought he might have to remove it

has anyone else noticed a correlation between bartholin gland congestion and breaking up?

thanks for the feedback, I am just curious...