also, ive been taking it under my tongue

Hi TigerLily. Good to hear from you. Did you get the book? If you want to do two combinations...go right ahead. Only you know what may be good for you! I started w/Rescue Remedy and added from there. So youre doing, at least, four drops 3-4 times a day, every single day? If you cant figure out what essence to add, it may take a little time, go ahead and add the Rescue Remedy to the Mimulus and see what happens. Have you figured what "type" you are?

You're not going to be able to diagnose yourself. My recommendation is work with a flower essences therapist.