Fiance HIV Positive 
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MoreMy fiance and I have been engaged for 11 months and found out he was HIV positive just after our engagement. This hasn't changed how I feel about him, I love him to death and he is my soul mate. My family thinks I'm nuts for pursuing our relationship. I fear for my health, enough to be able to protect my self, and I love him.
What should I do about my family? Open to all suggestions.- Re: Fiance HIV Positive stoneface
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MoreThis is a reply to # 1,151,030You are the one who can only say what to do !
Luck with your decision.
SF
- Re: Fiance HIV Positive gilda
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This is a reply to # 1,151,127How about not telling them? Too late? This is very important, personal confidential information; I wouldn't share it with anybody who couldn't be counted on to be supportive, and WITH my fiance's permission.
Now that you've made the mistake of bringing them into your and his business, you'll just have to buck up and tell them to myob after all. Nothing but a firm "I don't want to keep discussing this" and sticking to it will do. No amount of talking will make them change their minds.
- Re: Fiance HIV Positive gilda
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- Re: Fiance HIV Positive InvalidInk
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This is a reply to # 1,151,030Have you been checked?
Since this is Curezone and all I would recommend the book "The Cure For HIV / AIDS"
by Hulda Regehr Clark. I have her book " The Cure For All Diseases ", which you can read pretty much the whole book on this site for free, and it is really good. Also check out the AIDS forum on here I am sure there is some great info on it. - Re: Fiance HIV Positive ParaZapper
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- Re: Fiance HIV Positive #68716
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This is a reply to # 1,151,030If you were engaged to someone who was diagnosed with liver cancer or Rheumatoid Arthritis , how would you proceed?
Just because someone develops HIV does NOT make that person fit into a culturally preconcieved pigeon-hole. HIV can be transmitted a variety of ways, not just through sexual activity or shared hypodermic needles.
The issue here is support and compassion. If family members can be counted on to be supportive and compassionate, then they should be included in the loop - a network of support is essential, especially when someone is facing such a grave battle. If, however, family members cannot be trusted to be supportive and compassionate, then they should be forewarned that negative behaviors will not be tolerated.
Best wishes to you and your fiance.
- Re: Fiance HIV Positive stoneface
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