Dealing with Self-Hatred by Dancing Love .....

What you really feel about yourself on the inside powers what you will attract to yourself in your life.

Date:   6/25/2006 2:31:34 PM ( 18 y ago)

"The truth is that there is only one true dignity - love. The story of a
love is not important - what is important is that one is capable of love.
It is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity." (Helen
Hayes)

Dear Soul Friend,

"I am the worst... Nothing ever goes right for me..." If you think this,
stop beating yourself up.

What you really feel about yourself on the inside powers what you will
attract to yourself in your life. If you look at people in self
destructive professions (for example, prostitution and p 0 r n o g r a p h y), you
will find that on the inside that they truly hate themselves. For if they
did love themselves, they would find it impossible to put themselves up
for the level of pain they must endure on the path of their self
destruction.

When it comes to how you feel about yourself, it bears repeating that
every thought that you think, every feeling that you project, and every
word that you speak is quite literally a command to the universe.

So if you constantly think that you "hate your life", feel that you "hate
your life", say that you "hate your life", and take actions or allow
others to take actions that show that you "hate your life"… you will hate
your life.

The very first step toward ending this struggle inside yourself is to step
out of agreement with this statement and decide that you will no longer
hate your life. The next step is to decide that you will love yourself
from now on and start by loving and accepting yourself just as you are
right now.

If you cannot love yourself just as you are right now, you need to get up,
go to a mirror, look yourself in the eye, and say "I love you" out loud.
Do that everyday until you can at last believe it. No one, yourself
included, can do much if they are constantly being discouraged. By not
loving yourself, it is like you are always shouting "Boo!" in your ear as
loud as you can… all that will do is keep you mired in "bad" karma!

 

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