Radically Nice can be used when anonymous - on the internet

Date:   6/6/2006 1:38:45 PM ( 18 y ago)

I don't like to put on a "false front", a masking persona, in place of the real me in real life situations , because it will come back to bite me. To be consistant and real is important in most situations.

"Putting on a mask" is usualy not a good idea. In real life, if we act too nice, it will be mere minutes until someone takes advantage of you.

However, on the internet, in situations like game rooms where "the real you" doesn't really matter much, you can be a nice as apple pie [made without sugar or trans fats]and not have any problems. I find I can be radically nice, and it doesn't matter!

Of course, if it were here, where opinions have to carry some credability, there is no room for false fronts. It would not serve anyone very well to be nice when nasty is appropriate... but like critisizm, it is most effective when used only ONCE for every TEN TIMES you give that person some encouragement [one nasty for every 10 nice thought is maximun , or people will turn away from you].

 

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