Had a transforamational clearing with Twin Soul/Best Friend yesterday. Here are some middle of the night insights.

Date:   6/29/2007 6:26:31 AM ( 17 y ago)

4:00 AM
Thursday 6/29.07

Most of the things I write about relationship are
on my Heart's Desire Blog.

This is where I put the personal transformations
I go through through connecting with intimates.

I had some powerful insights yesterday
from a phone conversation with Twin Soul/Best Friend
that remind me of some basic truths that I hold in
relationship.

There is a difference between what I
call my Basic Truths and Beliefs.

My Basic Truths are the Foundation Principles
that I Aspire to express here on Earth as I do
in my Inner Worlds.

My Inner Worlds, the unseen is where my Foundation
on Earth rests.

It is what I do in my Inner Worlds that determines
The quality of Life I express here on Earth.

My Beliefs are often based on perceptions
that I may have about myself and others.
These can be based on what I am feeling in the moment.

The things I say in relationship may be based on
beliefs I have now--in the moment--that are not grounded in my Core FoundationTruths.

The very act of relating to another intimately
allows me to make love.

Love is the core Truth I hold.
I believe that Love guides my universe
and I am constantly being reminded to return to Love.

Love is the core substance that holds All Worlds together.

Love is more than an emotion.
Love is a Grounding Principles of Existence
and my Existence.

Every time I increase in Understanding between myself
my intimates, this brings the Enchanted
Garden one step closer to Earth.

The Enchanted Garden is many things.
It is the Unbroken Wholeness in Flowing Movement
that is Consciouseness itself.

The Enchanted Garden is Eden, a state of Consciousness
of Living in the Garden.

The Garden is Consciousness.

The Garden can also be a garden, a literal garden,
and gardening can be used as as way to garden Consciousness.

Relationship exists between me and plants,
and all living things, including my intimates.

Relationship between me and my intimates
provides the greatest opportunity for personal growth.

Soul inspired relationship is
rare on the earth.

Soul inspired relationship sees the other person as Whole
already. The Soul is our individuation in God.
The Soul is Perfect and whole already.

The Soul comes present here through Love.

Most of us are kicking ourselves out of the Garden Constantly
and can be constatnly returning to the Garden through
the transformations that take place in relationship to others.

We learn about love from our parents.

A parent is intended by nature to give unconditonal love
to a baby.

When the child does something that is distasteful to
the parent, often the parent will turn away eyes
and appear to remove the love.

The child feels abandoned.

This is called narcissistic dysfunction and leads to
narcissism. There are some classic works on this.
John Bradshaw refers to them. I cannot remember the
name of the book in this moment.

When a diaper is changed the parent
can turn away from the kid, and stop giving love messages.

this is merely one small example.

Most kids in this day are abused.
They do not receive the love that is naturally theirs from parents.
Most adults never become truly adults because there is a kid
inside who never got needs met.

the abuse goes from one generation to another.

We can reparent ourselves.

This is also what can be called plant parenthood,
but that is another story.

All nature contact can reparent in one way or another.

All relationship with things that are inherently Whole can reparent.

People--you and I--have the capacity to not turn away.

We are inherently whole and inherently love at our core.

We have the capacity to express the love we are
for ourselves and for one another.

When we allow ourselves to Trust another person
and reveal our innermost secret self--we are taking a risk
of exposing the parts of us that feel unwhole.

The parts of us that feel unwhole will come up
when we make love.

This is the nature of making love when love making
is soul inspired.

The foundation of our being is not our limits or hurt and
damaged feelings.

The very act of Soul inspired love making--the sharing
of love--is remedial.

The wounds will reveal themselves when we make love.
The damaged places inside us will reveal themselves as
we find the courage to express ourselves--all of ourselves
with another person.

Listening--this is essential.
To hear what another person is saying
is essential for helping ourselves
and the other person return to love.

Terror, neediness, loneliness,fear--these are emotions
that we all carry because of our wound pattern.

We have been abadoned so many times, and love
will bring this up.

The other person cannot fill us, or remove the loneliness
and feeling of neediness, but the very act of
of loving, is an organic step out of the loneliness we feel.

Only we can remedy this wound for ourselves through
reparenting ourselves;
yet it is the courage to be in relationship that gives us
the opportunity to experience with love feels like,
and to heal ourselves.

The very act of being there for another allows us
to regain Trust in love, and to love more.

The very act of receiving love, allow us tp be open
to love.

The more we love, the more we give ourselves and the other
person the opportunity to open.

The very act of not leaving, of finding the courage to
express ourselves, is a gift because it allows the other
to see themselves in the mirror of both where they
are wounded and well as where they are whole.

--
For more sharing of Heart's Desire
see my blogs on relationship.

 

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