Love is a need, not a feeling...says Marshall Rosenberg.

Date:   4/28/2006 12:48:49 PM ( 18 y ago)

April 28, 06
10:31 AM

What kind of changes are called for?
This is a question I am asking now?

Now much sleep last night.
Has more glitches with my Flashcards,
asking to use a recovery program
and spend tons of hours.
After all was said and done.
I did recover a bunch of lost images,
and among those that were corrupted,
few in fact of one series,
the one photo I really needed is unable thusfar.

What are the odds?
What are the energetics involved?
From a Feng Shui perspective,
that may be relevant. Was it just chance
or the energetic flow? I traded one book valued
at $18,00, and traded two other materials
for this photo that is not usual the way it is.
So I will look and see if I can recover it.

I was able to get a number of other completes,
but calls are not being returned regarding
a possible trip to Chicago next weekend for
the All Things Organic Show.

I realize I am at the bottom rung of a new level.
Lots of homework is needed to ground at this new level.

If I am practical, tons of work is needed right here
in my space, and looking at foundation priorities.

The work with Marshall Rosenberg is profound.
I was going to blog earlier in the week about
something called "Sexual Insurance."
If a person wants to stay in a successful intimate
relationship, they need a "drivers license."

Few of us know the territory really.
Can you observe without having your comments
be evaluations?

This is an amazing skill that he teaches.
He allows me to go into places like Palestine
and end up being invited to stay in the homes
of people who an hour before were calling him names
at the top of their lungs. He was born Jewish,
but that is not the issue.

He knows how to give empathy.
He knows some of the finest tools,
I call them gardening tools, for coming from
aliveness.

His teachers are about being honest, not
necessary being nice.

He used puppets of Jackels and Giraffe\'s to take his points
and help others get the teachings.

Giraffe's he used to say, stick their neck out.
Now he says, they are the animal with the biggest heart.

He teaches how to wear giraffe ears, so you do not
interpret what is being said with Jackel ears.

What is going on with the superintendent?

"He has a big mouth!" "He talks too much!"
There is a gifaffe way to say that.
Much to study here.

He speaks about love being a need
not a feeling. When love is seen as a need
this is giraffe. When seen as a feeling, Jackel.

Needs are the essence of this work.
Being Needy is a judgement, a Jackal evaluation.
Everyone has needs. His work is about
staying alive through expressing needs, but not
being attached to your requests.

He is about needs, not making strategies...
Divorce is more a strategy.

This system gets under my skin.
It makes me wonder if other approaches
could be done between two people to help
them both get their needs met, even when
on the surface it seems they have different needs.

What is behind the anger, the feeling?
Why is this being said, or asked?
He is brilliant, and this is soulful.
IF two want to play this approach,
any relationship could be turned into
something sustainable.



more to say.

Got to take out the trash...

your eg



April 29, 06
10:32 AM

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