Incels, and sexual frustration, are an important issue, and a very difficult one.

Date:   4/30/2018 3:22:31 PM ( 6 y ago)

It is unfortunate that we need to have a tragedy to raise an issue - the tragedy is the 10 dead and 26 injured in Toronto when a man who is enraged about being an "involuntary celebate" guy drove a van down a sidewalk.

"involuntary celebate" = Incel.

 The ISSUE is, partly, sexual frustration. Incels deal with a lot more than just the physical sex urges going unsatisfied, but this is a place to start at least.

   At puberty we begin to feel that compulsion to have sex. Masterbation satisfies for the first few months, but alll too soon we are looking at women differently, with one central question: "If you feel sexual urges too, then why are we not having intercourse?"

   40 years later, Incels are still asking that same question, but with a degree of disdain.

 Recognizing that female humans are the ones who get pregnant and cannot run away from it. Abortion is not without consequences. Birth control is not 100% sure....

  Unless we have a VASECTOMY at the onset of puberty!! THAT is one answer to the whole big question of sexuality. A reversable vasectomy that all males have done, and they simply request a reversal when they want children, and none are refused the reversal [with possible exceptions based on their partner agreeing?].

  Birth rates cut in half - 100% of unwanted pregnancies avoided!! And hardly a request for abortion ever again.

  Brilliant plan eh? I think so.

  But it does nothing for the Incels because they see themselves as "unwanted, and unattactive" I am not sure if others see them that way too or not - it seems to me that with a 50-50 ratio of men and women,and plenty of unattractive women abound, so there should be someone for everyone.... except that the single women who are not pursued heavily will be okay with not having sex.... but as a male I tend to believe that women do not have the same intense sex drive as men do - amI right or wrong on that??

   In any case, we have a lot of men wanting a romp. Most of them also know they are missing out on the relationship benefits of having someone to cook for, someone to please, someone to adore and make happy. They do not have to be attractive for any of that - the inside is the big part.

   These dissatisfied men will do what dissatisfied men do - some get angry and take it out on society at large, some fall into self-destructive behaviors, others become energy vampires.... but most try to find ways to accept their unsatisfied desires by seeking out other activities that bring them rewards.... I do music. Some climb mountains.

   Resentment of the physical sex urge is a real problem. We dont need it anymore, but it won't go away. The thrill of masterbation goes away for many of us, and it just becomes another chore we have to do,... but we don't want to....

   IF we could find a cure for the male sex urge, it would go a long ways to making a better society. Bitter enrgaged men are not good for civilizations. It is no joke. The only cure we know of is prostitution, but that seems like paying to breathe and we resent forking out money to cure something we didn'task for that occurs natually - AND it is probably not what most women want to do, even part time!! {but some love it, that is also true].

   So no answers except reversable vasectomy to reduce unwanted pregnancy.... but how to cure male frustrations from not enough sex is a diffucult one.... and I don't think we should be looking to women to solve it even though they are the absolute object of our desires - it is not their fault we get hard for them.

 Damn, this is pretty sad stuff eh?

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