anybody who has an answer to that?

We should always get permission to heal! I agree!
We should help anyone in need! I agree also!
We should not tolerate the bad things! I also agree!
Everything that happens happens for a reason and as a lesson in life! Most likely yes so I agree too.!
The master is more an observer than a doer! I don't know! But most of the time I try detach myself from any outcome whenever I give healing (love) and the less I involve my Ego the greater the result why?

Here is one of the greatest prayers I can think of that may help us in finding the right way:

God, give me the serenity to accept things which cannot be changed;
Give me courage to change things which must be changed;
And the wisdom to distinguish one from the other.

(Friedrich Christoph Oetinger, Murrhardt in Germany, 1702-1782)

Blessings
Thomas Zudrell

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