In both my family's trees there are events of sexal abused or physical abused.
We couldn't talk about untill not long ago but we began to clear things out, blame parents and grantparents but the horrify thing that came out is that it seem to be a pattern with in our familt trees - what can we do about it, for the suffering men and women in my family and with relatives and how can we avoid it in the future, if it's possible to prevent it.