You bring up some good points the real idea of the gospel is not about the rules, folks it is about the message....   Lets forget all this legalism and concert rate on the true gospel principles:  

1) Love the LORD GOD with all your heart, mind and soul....  Then love your neighbor as yourself....    You must first love yourself, before you can ever love others... 

2) Only those with clean hands and a pure heart will see GOD...

3) Then once you seek your salvation with fear and trimbeling....  Accept God's grace and forgiveness.... {Fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom....}

4) Decide where you will spend Eternity....

5) Take hold of the "Great Commission" go forth to all the earth... 

6) Take each day you are given as an opportunity from GOD to change your life so you can better help, aid, and minister to others....  {Lost souls in this world..}

7) Seek out those who need the message of salvation, comfort and help to bless them...  This is the Kingdom of GOD...   Amen...

{Actual scriptures can be furnished upon request, as well as prayer and assistance}