you HAVE changed, and for the better. the thing is that sometimes it takes a while for the changes inside to manifest outwardly and be evident by the rest of the world. you live inside of you and so for you the changes are obvioius, everyone else does not live inside you and so they see what they have always seen. spiritual changes are often like a developing egg, inside the embryo is growing and transforming from a single cell into one amazingly complex creation, but from the outside all we see is an egg, it seems the egg it just an egg day after day. but that doesn't mean that the changes are not happening. so until the changes are ready to be birthed into the world just keep centered and keep allowing the Spirit to complete the work that has begun.

remember the simplest acts of kindness and love are the truest testiment to a changed and changing person.

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