What we must learn to do is find the truth in life; and not learn to judge others who do not agree...

Date:   11/10/2006 6:19:14 PM ( 18 y ago)

One of the worst habits we learn in life is to judge others... This is something every man, woman and child has to deal with!!

I have found myself blaming and making down grading remarks about many or any who does not agree the way I do...  This is not productive; in fact it can and will in many cases lead you down a dead end street...  We must come to the realization that others have a GOD given right, to decide what they will...  Wither we agree with it or not!! HUH!!

So lets get our brain tuned up to the point; where we can come to understand that other people have an opinion, and most likely it will not agree with ours... This does not mean that we agree, or even accept their ideas but at least we know where they are coming from!! 

This understanding does not mean that we must tolerate their ideas, only that we must be aware of them...  In being aware of different ideas we can then make decisions based on our core values and thus become better informed... With a better knowledge of what others think of feel we can make our decisions as to how we will react!!  Knowledge is not an automatic acceptance of any or everything some one else thinks... It is just an enlightened phase of our life...

With this knowledge we can react or respond to what ever different thing that comes our way!! We need only understand the why of certain people's views...  This does not make us a judge, we come to a state where we can make personal decisions about the different views of others... This is one of the Liberties we are afforded in life!! 

This requires a very controlled and mature view of the differing views of others...  We can then learn to respond or react to these views...  This will give us a much better method for living our lives... Once we know or understand then we are better prepared to interface with the many differences found in the world... 

Our choice is to accept a different view or reject it based on our core values...  This is how we can confront and progress as we come to know or understand the ideas of others... It is not a judgment, rather it is a knowledge base!!  One that should lead us to a better life and reinforce our core values... This is what it takes to prepare to move into the Eternity to come!! 

Ready or not that day will come to pass...  We must try to conform our thoughts and views to those which will lead to a joyous eternal life!!  We all have an Eternal life before us, just many will not really like the one they get!! 

The choice is yours, search some of my back issues or posts on most of my blogs, and stop by my web site @ www.simplytruth.com   for more on this chain of thought...  Life should be finding  The Absolute Truth, Some Wisdom and Intercourse...

When will we learn to look beyond the situation and see the truth if any and decide to better our core values?? Not in Eternity, that will be too late; Friend!!

  See Ya...  I hope...  Kermit

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